Moving doesn’t always mean “downsizing.”
What Are Your Right-Sizing Options?
Right-Sizing is focused on choosing a home, community, or support system that better fits the life being lived now.
From aging-in-place to skilled-nursing facilities, there are several paths forward.
The hardest part is usually not choosing an option - it’s figuring out what the options even are.
This guide will help you understand the most common Right-Sizing options and how to determine which one is right for your family. If your family is starting to ask questions like:
You’re not behind - you are where most families start.
Unsure about if the time is right?
Right-Sizing Doesn’t Mean There’s Only One Path
Sadly, there is no universal right answer. There are too many things at stake for your mom or dad and your family.
Luckily, there is a best option for everyone and a lot of that depends on:
Some need immediate support and others simply need a safer home - the goal is not forcing a move.
Health and mobility needs
Memory or cognitive concerns
Social needs and lifestyle preferences
Financial situation
Family involvement / support availability
Emotional readiness for change
Common Right-Sizing Options for Denver Families
Below are what I have experienced after deciding that the time is right:
Aging in Place With Home Modifications
If your parent is still largely independent but the home has become less safe or practical, modifications may allow them to stay comfortably for years. Some of the most common changes include:
This option is best for those who strongly want to stay home and can remain safe with moderate support.
Moving to a Smaller, More Manageable Home
Sometimes their home is just too much for them to handle and any modifications may even add to the struggles in the home because it’s just more to maintain. The home is just too much home for them at the stage of life they’re in. Smaller patio homes, condos, and townhomes in 55+ communities provide:
Smaller homes are best for independent adults who want less upkeep without giving up full independence.
Independent Living Communities
Often, your mom or dad needs a little more support than their home can offer because they’re struggling with the home and their care needs are being affected by that. The right answer to their needs is independent living communities that offers:
These communities are best for seniors who are needing a worry free lifestyle and help when if needed.
Assisted Living
There comes a time when your mom or dad needs help with day-to-day activities in their home. There also may benefit from having people with medical backgrounds to help with:
These communities are best for independent seniors that need more hands-on support and a 24/7 presence.
Memory Care
As people age, they are diagnosed with things like Alzheimer’s, Dementia, and other cognitive declines. Things like wandering and general confusion are dangerous and these communities offer:
Memory Care facilities are best for those experiencing memory issues leading to more dangerous behaviors
Skilled Nursing / Nursing Homes
At some point, these diagnoses become too much for the staff at facilities that do not offer specialized care programs. These communities help those who need rehab after an emergency or other significant medical needs as they offer:
People needing substantial daily medical or physical care from highly trained professionals are best here.
Sometimes the best move is… not moving.
Grab bars and railings
Walk-in showers / tub conversions
Stair lifts
Main-floor bedroom conversions
Wider doorways for mobility devices
Improved lighting / fall prevention upgrades
Sometimes the house itself is simply too much.
Lower maintenance
Better accessibility
Less physical strain
Lower monthly expenses
Proximity to family / amenities
Sometimes they made need kind of an “intro to Senior living”
Private apartment or cottage living
Social activities and transportation
Minor assistance with medical needs
Maintenance-free lifestyle with meal plans and dining options
Sometimes more involved help is needed with medical professionals
Medication management
Bathing / dressing assistance
Meal service
Mobility help
Sometimes seniors need smaller, more specialized home
Structured routines
Enhanced safety/security
Specialized staff training
Therapeutic activities
Sometimes seniors need the highest level of residential care
Full-time nursing support
Complex healthcare management
Mobility assistance
Comfort care